Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Our gingerbread housey

I took a gazillion pictures with my new camera
BUT
I am not that great with it yet and
ACCIDENTALLY
deleted about 10 of them :(
Here is the only one I had of Spenser and it is almost
blurry





Ashlyn started out pretty good this year
actually putting
candy
on the house













Can you see the temptation growing in her???
After about oh, one minute
she started cramming candy
in her mouth.


She couldn't resist it anymore...
goodbye chimney!!!




She is as fast as lightning
no one could stop her!!


THE END




Monday, December 7, 2009

SO.OUT.OF.SHAPE

HOLY MOLY!! I started the "couch to 5k" program tonight. Yes tonight. I don't want to hurt anyone's eyes running during daylight hours. You take a fast 5 min walk, run, walk, run, walk, run, walk..... I downloaded a program on my IPOD that plays music and plays a jingle sound letting you know when it is time to run/walk... pretty nifty. You do the program 3 times a week and supposedly you will be running 5k at the end of 9 weeks. We.shall.see. I wasn't so sure I was going to make it through the first day, but I did - sore legs and all. It feels good making it through the first day because I am so stinking out of shape. Just FYI it will probably take me a lot longer than 9 weeks to be able to do this....but ya gotta start somewhere!!


Tuesday, December 1, 2009

It's December 1st

It's December 1st and Mr. Jingles made his debut today..
he was found by Mason with his booty sticking out
of the Christmas tree!
Can't wait to see what goodies he brings and
what mischief he will get in to this year!!
Let the Christmas season begin!











Thursday, November 26, 2009

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

I hope that each and every one of you had a wonderful Thanksgiving day. I am so thankful for so many things. Number one, I am so thankful for a Heavenly Father who loves me despite my many imperfections. I do try so hard to please him, but end up failing him every day....yet he loves me and he tells me that he loves me in sooooo many ways. I am also thankful for my family and our health. The Lord has blessed me with a wonderful, hard working and loving husband. I am blessed with three beautiful children who I love so stinking much!! I am thankful that we have a warm home to live in, jobs to report to, vehicles that carry us there. We have wonderful and loving parents that give us support in so many ways. I am thankful for everything that the Lord has done for me and is going to do for me.

I am also thankful for people like this family , the Hollis famly. Their daugther Lydia who is only 11 years old, felt a tug on her heart from God to add little Darya to their family. Darya lives in another country in an orphanage where she lays in a crib with no one to hold her, love her, or sing to her. Darya has Down syndrome. But that doesn't matter to the Hollis family. They have two children with Down syndrome, one who is biological and one who is adopted. Lydia asked her mother if they could adopt Darya if she raised the money for the adoption fees. Her goal was to raise $20,000 by Thanksgiving, so Lydia set out on many fundraisers and collected donations. I'm sure people thought she was crazy when she told them how much money she had to raise in 8 short days. But guess what?? She did it! She went over and beyond $20,000 and now they are giving any extra over the $20,000 to another family who is adopting a child with Down syndrome. God is good and he is FAITHFUL!!! I just found her blog last night and of course my heart strings were pulled!!! I waited up until after 12 am to see if they had posted their final count but ended up going to bed when it wasn't posted. I woke up this morning to an awesome surprise!! Go look for yourself and see what an awesome job they did!! God bless the Hollis family! HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!
Hollis family link


Monday, November 2, 2009

Halloween week

Started out the week decorating sugar cookies at school





Yummy Halloween red velvet cake balls.....



This little witch looks anything BUT thrilled.
She was supposed to be Sleeping Beauty but was not digging the sleeves
so I had to pull out a witch costume from a couple of years ago.




Gene Simmons showed up










The cow and the gangsta









He was just too cool to trick or treat with us this year....








Checking out the loot




Howard got in on the action too!




THE END





Saturday, October 31, 2009

HAPPY HALLOWEENIE







Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Cuteness

hmmm hmmm my maw loves me!


I think these biscuits need to be squished a little

they were looking too fluffy!


Yeah I'm cute and lovey






Sugar me up and then you can go home! :)



All this loving just wears me out....




Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Romeo, Romeo

wherefore art though Romeo??





This is Jasmine, Howard's secret lover. Can you hear the whining and whimpering from where you are??? Poor Howard doesn't seem to care that she is only about 4 times bigger him.... love is blind I tell ya!!





Table for 3

So this Hound dog of ours was supposed to be fed *only* dog food... comprende??? No, no, no comprende says Senorita Ashlyn. I think these two are such good buds because of the fringe benefits that he sweeps up after her. Tonight he got chicken tenders and french fries. For dessert there was Amish bread, oh and for breakfast he lapped up some pieces of cinnamon biscuit from Bojangles. Yep, I am sure that is why he still hangs around the wild woman even when she lays on top of him and pins him on the couch..... oh what a life!









Monday, October 19, 2009

Another seizure....

Ashlyn had another seizure last night. This makes about 7 since July...not good. Her seizure meds have been adjusted to double for about a month now and she still had another one. It actually was REALLY weird! I don't know if some people have any types of "warnings" right before they have a seizure, but last night I was laying down with her trying to get her to go to sleep. She repeated "please stop" about 5 times, which is soooo out of character for her. Nobody was touching her and we weren't talking, just total blackness and silence (except for her repeating please stop). Mike came in and layed down with her while I took a shower. Everyone else was in the bed and I heard him yelling my name and I immediately *KNEW* that she had to be having a seizure because he was yelling so loud, knowing the boys were in bed too. I jumped out of the shower and ran in there to find her still seizing. It wasn't that long, only about a minute, but I kept thinking "oh what if she had had it earlier in the day and fell and hit her head again?" But thankfully she was safe in the bed. I called the neurologists office today and I am thanking God that they aren't co-pay sucking freaks and didn't make me drive all the way to Charlotte to figure out another prescription plan for her. Luckily we had discussed changing her meds last month because I was having trouble getting the capsules in her and so the doctor had in the chart that we would switch to Keppra if I continued having trouble getting the Zonegran capsules in her. Taking medicine is pure TORTURE for Ashlyn. She doesn't like the taste and she doesn't comprehend why we have to give her this yucky stuff every night. So now that she has had another seizure, the torture has to increase :( We went from taking her medicine once a day, to now giving her three different doses in one day. She will start on Keppra in the morning and in the evening she will get another dose of Keppra along with the Zonegran for about two weeks. We sure could use your prayers! It takes two of us to get her meds in her! She is 47 pounds of TOUGH MEAT!! There is NO WAY I could get her meds in her by myself, as she fights like a line backer!! Ahhhhhh, such is life....sometimes we have to do things that we really just don't want to do! I would gladly take 10 shots in the hiney a night, than to have to give her one dose of medicine!!



Thursday, October 15, 2009

Suit says teacher tried to sicken boy with peanut allergy

Our kids are supposed to be safe at school right? YIKES this is scary!

Link


Suit says teacher tried to sicken allergic boy
Educator at RISE didn't want to take student with autism on field trip to zoo, reports say:



The mother of a 7-year-old boy with autism and a severe peanut allergy claims in a new lawsuit that a teacher didn't want her son to go on a class trip to the zoo. So, the suit contends, she tossed him a Mr. Goodbar -- chock full of peanuts.
"Maybe he could get sick enough not to attend and we won't have to deal with it," the teacher told a classroom aide, according to court and state documents.
The boy didn't eat the candy bar. The teacher, Trinda Barocas, has denied doing anything to prevent the child from attending the trip or harming any children. She has since resigned from the school, RISE Learning Center in Indianapolis.
The Mr. Goodbar allegation came to light when school officials called in state child welfare investigators after teacher's aides alerted them about concerns that the teacher was abusive.

Child Protective Services substantiated the claims, according to the agency's report.
The child's mother, Anita Young, became aware of what happened when the principal at RISE called her.
In addition to the suit against the district, Young wants criminal charges filed against Barocas.
"Every day I would send my son to school believing he was safe in school, a public school," Young said. "I was betrayed. . . . Now I'm left to clean up the damage."
CPS substantiated the claims of abuse in April. At this point, prosecutors have not charged Barocas with a crime. A spokesman for Marion County Prosecutor Carl Brizzi did not return a phone call for comment.
In her interview with CPS, Barocas said she had not wanted the boy to go on the field trip because he would act out, but she said she didn't do anything to stop him from coming.
The state report says teacher's aides also described Barocas as dragging Young's son and another student across the floor by their arms, pushing them, pinching Young's son and flicking the other student on her lips.


But the most jarring account is from early in the 2008-09 school year -- on the day of the field trip to the Indianapolis Zoo.
Teacher's aide David "Bo" Holder told investigators that on that day, Barocas said, "I wonder what would happen if (the boy) had peanuts? I could touch it, and then touch him."

Another aide, Heather Schroeder, told state investigators Barocas had given the boy the Mr. Goodbar.
Holder told the state he didn't see Barocas toss the boy the candy bar, but he said he heard her say she had given him peanuts.

Young suspects the reason the boy didn't eat the candy bar is because, like many children with autism, he won't eat foods he's unfamiliar with -- and he had never seen a candy bar in a yellow wrapper.
Young discovered the peanut allergy when her son was a small boy and he swelled up after touching his father's peanut butter sandwich. Doctors have warned Young and her husband that the boy will asphyxiate within minutes if he eats peanuts and isn't immediately treated.
The school was aware of the boy's allergies, and a large sign on the classroom door warned that peanuts were not allowed in the room. Young also had talked to the teacher about the peanut allergy.


"I think she's sadistic," Young said. "I think there's something wrong with her mind. She shouldn't teach. She shouldn't be allowed around kids."
Barocas' attorneys did not respond to calls seeking comment Thursday, but according to the CPS report, the teacher told the agency "she did not want (the boy) to attend the field trip to the Indianapolis Zoo because of his behavior. She stated that he did go and did many things that he was not allowed to do. Trinda compared (the boy) to an 18-month-old child several times. Trinda denied that she did anything or said anything to stop (the boy) from coming on the field trip."

She also told state investigators and attorneys she had not abused children in the other incidents, although she acknowledged occasionally making light physical contact, such as tapping, when correcting their behavior.
Perry Township Schools Superintendent Thomas Little said the district, which administers RISE, reported the accusations to CPS as soon as it was aware of them.
Before the accusations came to light in March, the district had moved to fire Barocas for poor performance, Little said. She instead turned in her resignation to be effective at the end of the school year.

But when the aides reported what they had seen, Barocas was placed on administrative leave and never returned to the classroom. She left the district at the end of the year.
"Based on our review of our facts to date, the district did everything they could," said David Day, an attorney for the district. "They addressed it as soon as they found out about it."


State teacher licensing officials have been working with CPS and the prosecutor's office to monitor the case, state Department of Education spokesman Cam Savage said. If wrongdoing is confirmed, Barocas could lose her teaching license.
Barocas also was placed on administrative leave in 2007 when she worked in Franklin Community Schools. At that time, a nurse told a child's mother that she had seen Barocas force-feeding the girl, slapping her and improperly restraining her.
The Sheriff's Department and school district cleared Barocas in that case. She told a Star reporter at that time, "I did not, will not and would not hurt a child in my care."





Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Halloween 2002





Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Worth it all

Rita Springer is my absolute favorite Christian artist. This song "Worth it all" is set to scenes from "The Passion of the Christ". If you think you can't handle seeing these scenes then at least just listen to the lyrics. It is an amazing song and I honestly do believe that in the end it will be "worth it all".











Monday, October 12, 2009

God doesn't make mistakes






Friday, October 9, 2009

Pals

I am so glad that we finally took the plunge getting a house doggy. Howard is the sweetest thing ever and he even hangs out with the wild woman, despite her wild attitude!! He was already house trained when we got him, now If we could just get control of black doggy hair everywhere we would be in business. Gaaaaahhhh we are not digging the dog hair. Any suggestions??














Wednesday, October 7, 2009

PLEASE go and visit this blog fundraiser for the adoption of Ruslana!! They are having an awesome give away to help raise funds to help bring Ruslana home! Even if you can't contribute please continue to PRAY for her and her new family!!


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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Nie Nie is going to be on Oprah!!





Stephanie Nielson is going to be on Oprah tomorrow, Wednesday October 7. I can hardly wait!!! I already have it set to record just in *case* anything would happen that I can't be here to watch it.

Stephanie and her husband Christian Neilson were in a horrid plane crash one year ago and it was almost fatal. Her family pulled together to care for her 4 children while she and her husband were both in comas. They are both recovering thanks to our precious Heavenly Father. Their story will be aired on Oprah Winfrey tomorrow afternoon!! Thank you so much Stephanie for sharing your story and sharing your lives! You and your family are very much loved and treasured!

Here is a link to her blog ~







Monday, October 5, 2009

Pic from the past










Sunday, October 4, 2009


Happy 15th birthday to my favorite "oldest" son!!
I am very thankful for you and love you very much!
It's all because of you, that I became a mommy!





Saturday, October 3, 2009

BUSTED......





Friday, October 2, 2009

For those who pray......


Copied information on an angel named Ruslana who has Down syndrome:



Calling all prayer warriors. Please pray for this family. http://nogreatergift.blogspot.com/2009/10/24-hours-of-prayer-for-ruslana.html They are in the process of adopting a beautiful little girl from Eastern Europe named Ruslana and they just found out that she will be transferred to the mental institution in 2 weeks. There is no way they can get to her in that time frame. The family is requesting 24 hours of prayer for Ruslana. PLEASE, PLEASE help this family by lifting them and their beautiful daughter up in your prayers.Ruslana is being transferred to the mental institution because she has Down Syndrome. She will have to live there for the rest of her life and many of the children do not even make it a year until they die. Some are even tied down in beds and severely neglected once they are in an institution. I cannot believe that this is God’s plan for Ruslana’s life…. Please help us pray from Friday (October 2) to Saturday at noon.






Thursday, October 1, 2009

October is Down syndrome awareness month




Get It Down; 31 for 21



I will once again attempt to do the 31 day challenge to blog for 31 days in October to raise awareness for Down syndrome! Here is day number 1 down!! Only 30 to go!





Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Find something good in every day

Today's goodness... I took Ashlyn to the neuro for a checkup on her seizures. I REALLY liked the doctor that we saw today. We have seen 3 so far and 2 of them I really do like. The doctor that she saw today read through her chart and saw that she had infantile spasms as a baby. He commented that she appears to be developing nicely for a child who had infantile spasms and that some children unfortunately do not develop very quickly after having them. Well even though she is behind her peers with Down syndrome it looks to him that she is moving right along nicely :) Hey, it made my day!!!



Tuesday, September 15, 2009

The little turd

He just looks guilty doesn't he???








Saturday, September 12, 2009

HAPPY 10th BIRTHDAY ASHLYN
The cake
the Birthday girl
Crazy cousin (free entertainment)
another crazy cousin



















This cake is groooovy, don'tcha think??
Nose diving it.....


The End!








Monday, September 7, 2009

Birthday Princess

My Princess Ashlyn turned 10 years old on August 31. It’s hard to believe that it has been 10 WHOLE years since she blessed our family with her birth. She was such a quiet and sweet baby girl who didn’t demand much attention…..and now she is a spunky, wild child woman, who demands your attention!! She is so funny and makes us laugh on a daily basis. She honestly does new stuff now almost every day, even if it is just a new word or even a new attitude….we get something from her every day. For instance…I took cupcakes to her school on her birthday for her class to eat at lunch. When I walked up to her she ignored the pee out of me. You would have thought she was 14 years old and embarrassed that her mom showed up at school!! She was sitting there all straight and proper in her seat in the cafeteria, with a birthday crown on her HEAD waiting for her lunch!! Wild woman NEVER wears anything on her head for more than a few seconds for us. She kept looking away from me like she was saying –please go away!! I told her to give me a kiss and the lil turkey stuck the side of her face out to me, to kiss her cheek! She is such a funny girl! I’m still not believing she wore that crown on her head without a fuss.
Another thing that is hard for me to believe is that her seizures have returned. She hasn’t had a seizure in 8 ½ years. To be honest, I really thought we were out of the woods on those nasty beasts. She had seizures as a baby, every day –throughout the day for 12 mos. When the seizures were finally gone the neurologist informed me that they could return again later in her life, as a different form of seizure. The thought of them returning was always in the back of my mind, but not something that really consumed my thoughts. When she had her first seizure this summer it was so out of the blue and unexpected. She was eating her cereal one morning at the bar in our kitchen. I turned to walk away and took a few steps when I heard a loud THUD. I turned around to find that she had fallen off of the bar stool onto the cold, hard tile and she was seizing. I grabbed her up into my arms and immediately started praying over her, and of course crying and boo hooing because all I could think was “what if she fell on her head wrong and she doesn’t wake up. What if she stops breathing, what if her heart stops beating?” I was more worried about her having a brain injury from the fall, than I was about her having the seizure. With each seizure she had I became more and more at peace about it. Instead of being angry, I would just grab her up and cradle her and pray over her until it stopped. God whispered to me that it would be okay and I believed him. Although Ashlyn went on to have 3 more seizures before her medication was actually started, I can happily say that she has not had any more seizures since she started taking medication and everything IS okay. Throughout her life (and my other children as well) I just turn the issues over to my Lord. I can’t possibly bear the load of heartache, grief and worry on my own, that I as a parent am faced with. God has been so good to me and my family and for that I am very thankful.

HAPPY 10TH BIRTHDAY PRINCESS ASHLYN. I love you more than you will ever be able to comprehend in this lifetime.






























































Wednesday, August 26, 2009

It's Christmas in August!!!

So the ice cream truck came rolling through our neighborhood this afternoon.
And we just all had to have some ice cream because it's Christmas time right?
No?
Well someone needs to inform the ice cream man because he is playing Christmas songs like~
Silent night
Rudolph the Red nose reindeer
Frosty the snowman
ha ha, we had a good laugh.
He didn't speak very good Engrish so I wasn't about
to bring up the fact that Christmas isn't for
4 MORE MONTHS!!!
Oh well, his ice cream is good no matter if it's
Christmas or not!
































Sunday, August 23, 2009

Our newest family member :)

This is Howard, aka Howie
Howie may stay, Howie may leave
it's all up to Howie.
This is our first attempt at a house dog.
I cannot believe Mr. Clean Freak Mike
even allowed it to happen. :)
He worries about pee pee on our carpet-
chewed on furniture-
and heaven forbid there be dog hair amongst us.
So last night Spenser and I were on our way home with Howie.
This was precious-
he said "mom, maybe you should pray for Howie".
I said "okay, how do you want me to pray?"
and he said- "that Howie will be a good dog
and Dad will love him and let us keep him".
So I did-
So far it's working :)
I love this kid.....

Mason's pretty tickled with him too....they run all over the house-

back and forth, back and forth-

I love the sound of his little toenails

clicking along the wood floors...

awwwwwww


Ashlyn has been so sweet...she sits with her legs out straight

and pats her little legs and says "here puppy".



Howie is an 8 month old Daschund and Corgi mix.

He's so shiny and his coat is beautiful.

I hope he's a keeper :)
















Wednesday, August 19, 2009

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY








Thursday, August 13, 2009

It's been a good week!!


My little girl is slowly growing up on me!! She had two of her "first time's" this past week. The other day I took the kids to their aunt's shop to get their hair cut. If you know Ashlyn, you know that this is not usually a nice occasion. I have had to hide outside, hide in the bathroom, hide in the corner, etc. to get this wild childs hair cut. I have come out of there bleeding where she had scratched my chest because she was scared and freaking out about getting her hair cut. So yesterday Spenser went first. When he was finished he walked outside to get Mason because ya know we were saving the best for last. (Ashy) While he was outside Miss Priss walks over to the chair, climbs her bitty butt in that chair and was ready to get her hair cut. I almost passed out!!! Who is this child and what did she do with my Ashlyn??? She is such a silly girl. While she was getting her hair cut she kept saying "ow, ow, hurt me". We laughed and laughed at the crazy girl...she is soooo dramatic.

So the next day we were at Wal-mart and Mason wanted to pick out a backpack for school. While we are standing there Ashlyn points to a backpack and says "Fairy". So I pick up two, one with Disney princesses and the "Fairy" (Tinkerbell) and ask her which one she wants. Again she said Fairy. I hand her the backpack, fully expecting her to throw it down on the floor and laugh...but oh no... she really wanted the "Fairy" backpack. She eventually tossed it in the back of the shopping cart and this meant oh yeah, we are really getting this one. People this was huge okay!!! This child will be 10 years old on the 31st and she has NEVER ever picked anything out from the store!!! I have tried my best to let her pick out a dolly or heck, any toy for that matter and she has just never "wanted" anything from the store... it always ends up rejected on the floor. Even Mason was tickled that she picked out her own backpack this year...he's 8 years old and even he "gets it".




Wednesday, August 12, 2009

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY